My Personal Journey To Squirting
Everyone with a Skene's and Bartholin's gland can squirt! I never thought I personally could, but it started out with a little bit of amrita, or the nectar of the gods. Squirt isn't pee and I'm going to tell you my journey throughout the years of my experience; doing 50 kegels everyday for 30 days. Sounds easy, but I'm on day 7 and I'm already seeing big changes. To do a proper kegel, one must activate their abdominal muscles and "lift" their bladder and cervix, upward. You're not doing a proper kegel unless you feel it in your abs! I'm determined to have strong kegels so I can learn how to control my squirting.
The first time I was aware I squirted was late 2021. I thought I'd piss myself, but no, it was amrita. I never really pursued squirting before because I tend to be adverse to liquids on my bed. I've bought disposable medical pads to prevent getting amrita on my bed. I've tried squirting in the shower, but standing up while accessing my G-spot was too difficult and I am a fall risk when I'm in the shower (especially when my legs shake). I haven't slipped in the shower and I have no intentions of doing so in the future.
From the image, you can actually see the G-spot externally, or from the outside. Patience is necessary for squirting because it's like an Olympic sport. The G-spot, or Grafenberg spot (just say G-spot, we don't need to associate our vaginas to these outdated white men's names) is a sponge-like texture which can be stimulated externally or internally. Most of the time it is stimulated internally during sex, however, mastering squirting through solo play will make it easier to squirt with a partner.
Vibrate, not penetrate! Penis owners shouldn't ram their cocks in a pussy and expect them to squirt right away. It takes time and a technique that requires a bit more finesse for beginners. Instead of doing this, vibrate, even with your penis. First, ask them where around the G-spot, or explore together, where it is most sensitive. If they find the spot, stay there and simulate either with fingers, an insertable [preferably curved glass or medical grade steel] dildo, or a penis. This is why being pleasure-oriented is better than orgasm-oriented. Orgasm isn't the goal of sex, but pleasure is.
Remember, every body is different and one must know their own pleasure points first before tackling a squirting orgasm. Be sure to communicate with your partner about your body and what you like. If you have tried all of this and still no squirt, perhaps speak to a doctor. Cysts can occur in the Skene's and Bartholin's gland and should be referred to a professional. Amrita is literally a gift from whatever God you believe in. Embrace pleasure.
Happy squirting and masturbation month!
